North America
It is no secret that North America is a bleeding edge society. That means it sees all the failure that comes with being in over its head, and always chasing the next half-baked idea.
What makes North America socially impossible is the nature of the social culture. North America has the most exclusivist, narcissistic and childlike culture in the developed world. It is the land where bluster, bravado and one-upsmanship rule everything.
North America an architecturally stunted land of loneliness and misery.
Basically the place has cultural amnesia. There is only industry. There is not real living.
Dating and nightlife in North America are emotionally sterile and hyper saturated. They produce dissatisfaction, and almost nothing else, just like this society.
North America has officially hit the wall. And left the new generations to deal with an absolute fragmentation of economics, family, friendship, dating and relationships.
If a person wants a thriving social and sexual life, avoid North America at all cost.
If you find yourself living there, avoid almost everyone you know and learn where the airport is.
Asia
Indonesia
Bali
Seminyak is a balance of party and class, at the cost of dealing with annoying crowds in their 20s and street peddlers
Canggu is a mix of Europeans, Australians, and locals
Ubud has very limited party scene, the prime appeal being nature
Kuta has the worst reputation of all tourist zones here
Jakarta
Jakarta is has a party reputation and enormous potential to speed date and build a roster overnight.
This comes at the cons of being overrun by industry, overpriced, difficult to navigate, impossible to adapt.
Like all other giant metros in SE Asia, Jakarta is best visited briefly, and not expecting a new welcoming life of peace.
Thamrin Residence and surrounding area of Sarinah Mall is a contender for a strong digital nomad lifestyle.